Coping with two or more children is very different from coping with one; it can be difficult at first especially if your first child is very young. When it comes to looking after baby you have more experience and confidence too, which helps, but the work more than doubles. In addition, you may find your first child shows some jealousy or attention seeking behaviour. This can be addressed by ensuring you focus on them too and encouraging your child to engage with their new family member, remember they have to adjust too.